The Art Of Making Up
Making up can be one of the best things to happen in your life, or the worst. You must first take a few steps in order to make sure everything is in perfect conditions to make up with someone, or to get them back to you. It is important that you think long and hard about what you are trying to do and how you will do it. All the pain that comes after a break up or a sour relationship may just heal with time, but it may never heal unless you make peace with that person. Making peace can help improve your life but there are somethings to keep in mind before you attempt this.
Regardless of your situation before the relationship went sour or you broke up, there are some proven methods to solving this problem and making your life happier and regret less. However keep some things in mind first as you go about your business.
1. Never become desperate or seek out the person because you feel you have no one else to go to. That is NOT true, there are always people in your life who will be there for you, you just aren’t looking hard enough for them. If you rush back you may look pathetic and then you will appear pathetic and that is not the way you want to look to that person who honestly wants you to be a better person.
2. You must first find peace with yourself in order to find peace with the relationship. If you aren’t in a good mood or you cannot find contentment in your life as it is, you should consider waiting or finding something to distract you before you go back to the person to reconcile things. We all can’t be who we want to be, but we can be good people and be content with how things are, once you accept that you will be ready to go back.
3. After steps 1 and 2 you should be ready to do step 3, which is accept the fact that things may even be worse between the two of you after your attempt to fix things. If you are able to accept this fact fully, then only then are you ready to attempt to rehabilitate the relationship between the two of you. If you aren’t, and things go sour, you could potentially be in serious risk of your mental and physical well being and may end up in a hospital.
4. Be prepared, the boy scout motto. Don’t run over at a whim and think like some fairy tale movie everything will be fixed. Set a time and place and think about what you want to say and how you will say it. Maybe bring a gift, go someplace slightly public but not too private to creep them out. Be cautious and never accusatory.
5. Be sure that you yourself are ready. You can’t expect things to work between a happy person and a sad person, as one will always drag the other down, so make sure that first you are not going to be the sad person who makes this fail again, be the happy person.
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